From Hurt to Healed
Welcome To A Winning Movement
We exist to move children of divorce from hurt to healed by raising the Emotional Intelligence
of their parents & the family law professionals who serve them.
Family Law Professionals
You’re committed to fighting for the best outcomes for your clients — and your firm.
But too often, that fight results in burnout. Your clients drain your energy; opposing counsel drains your energy. Without realizing it, you pack up client drama and counsel conflict into your briefcase and take it home.
Explore how Emotional Intelligence (EI) can help you manage client emotions, reduce burnout, strengthen negotiations, and enhance your professional edge — all for the sake of better outcomes for the children of divorce.
Parents in Divorce and/or Custody
If there were an easier way to protect your kids from the emotional wreck divorce can cause, you would take it.
Divorce and custody battles hurt children more deeply than they will ever show.
In fact, you may not know how much pain they are going through until something unexpected happens.
Emotional Intelligence training offers a new path forward: helping you understand and manage stress, guilt, and frustration while doing what’s best for your children.
Adult Children Of Divorce
You are the reason this movement exists. We see the lingering scars your parents’ divorce and custody challenges left on your heart and soul.
Whether you were a child or an adult when your parents divorced, you still carry the emotional load.
On the outside you are “fine”, but on the inside you aren’t fully healed.
Understand and learn how to honor the emotions that keep you from feeling fine on the inside. Emotional Intelligence (EI) training is your first step.
Your Breakthrough Starts Here
When emotions are understood, not suppressed…
When empathy meets boundaries…
When professionals and parents are emotionally equipped —
Families win. Children win. You win.
Transforming Emotional Struggles into Strength
From Breakdown to Breakthrough: Discover the Power of Selfish-Generosity™ and Rebuild Your Life from the Inside Out
I didn’t just learn about emotional intelligence in books or workshops—I lived it. My journey began on the bathroom floor, overwhelmed and broken after years of putting everyone else first. I had lost myself as a mother, wife, and woman. It was through my own emotional breakdown that I discovered the truth: that a breakdown is not the end, but the beginning of a breakthrough. I call this realization “Selfish-Generosity™”—the idea that in order to truly give to others, we must first give to ourselves.
Unlike traditional coaches, I don’t offer quick fixes or generic advice. I’ve walked the path of breakdowns, divorce, burnout, and the messy middle of life. That’s why I help people transform their emotional struggles into their greatest sources of strength. I combine personal experience, emotional intelligence techniques, and a deep understanding of what it means to rebuild from the inside out.
Ways We Can Start Your Journey
3-Hour Workshop Facilitation
A deep-dive, interactive workshop designed to help your group unlock emotional intelligence for personal and professional growth.
1-Hour Guest Speaker
Inspire your audience with a powerful keynote on emotional intelligence and personal empowerment tailored to your organization’s needs.
10-Week Coaching Program
A transformative journey where I guide you through mastering emotional intelligence and achieving your goals, week by week.
1-Hour Phone Consultation
Get personalized, actionable insights during a focused one-on-one session to tackle your immediate challenges.
Private Breakdowns Lead to Public Breakthroughs
Every powerful woman has moments of struggle—it’s what you do with them that counts. Join my email list to gain exclusive access to tools and insights that help you turn your private challenges into your most profound public successes. It’s time to make your breakthrough.
Pamela Elaine's Notable Stats As Speaker & Presenter
How We’ll Work Together
Meet the Emotional Intelligence Architect
Pamela Elaine Nichols
I help you understand the landscape of your emotions so you can have fewer breakdowns and more breakthroughs
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Hear What My Clients Think
“Man, that was a powerful moment for me. It was liberating, it was a breakthrough for me. So, man, you were coaching, right on.”
- Nurjhan Johnson
“It has been a great experience. It has been wonderful. And I love that I’m coached from two different perspectives.”
- Monique Johnson
“Holy moly donut shop. They are awesome. I came in with some anxiety but they are the most passionate about this course”